Please somebody tell me how I can get over a guy I'm falling in love with?

It's forbidden love because I'm married and I'm falling in love with another man at the same time. "Torn Between Two Lovers" song by Mary MacGregor says it all. It is extremely hard to get over the feelings. Help?|||travel carefully. many people can be hurt by your actions. love is a tricky ******. pain is inevitable. either you deal with that pain now and move on OR you can pursue it and prolong and grow that pain. no one knows the heart of another. just be honest.